Many women feel like they have to be a supermodel to look good naked, but many guys aren’t paying that much attention. Looking sexy at bed isn’t as difficult as you might think. YouQueen magazine has stated the following 10 tips to get yourself looking your best for the big night.
#1 Take a Shower
Always take a shower before sex. If you have a big date before the big event, shower and shave. First, you’ll feel rejuvenated and second, you’ll smell amazing. Honestly, it doesn’t matter how good you look, if you smell bad he’s going to think twice about sleeping with you.
#2 Fix Your Hair
Make your hair look pretty. Fan it over the pillow as you lay down, condition it so it’s soft, and don’t use hairspray (keep it natural and flowing).
#3 Easy on the Makeup
Leave the make-up off or use only the absolute bare minimum needed to look un-zombified.
#4 Pinch Your Cheeks
If you want to give yourself a fresh flush, pinch your cheeks a little. Rosy cheeks are a turn on (that’s why women wear blush) and it makes you look flushed and excited. It also cuts out on unnecessary make-up.
#5 Soften the Lighting
It doesn’t matter how beautiful you are, soft lighting gives off a romantic feel and thus makes you look sexier. soft lighting puts an ambiance into the room. Nobody wants to have sex under harsh florescent lights. Dim the lights or light a few candles instead.
#6 Baby Oil/Lotion
Before you even think about hopping into bed with your partner, soften up your skin. YouQueen recommends baby oil (because it also gives you a little glow), but not all men like the smell of baby oil (it reminds them of babies and that can be a mood killer). However, lathering yourself up with a moisturizing body lotion or cream before sex ensures that his fingers are caressing your skin at its best.
#7 Give a Sleepy/Sultry Look
When you’re about to have sex you need to look sultry. Give your partner the sleepy gaze. Instead of having your eyes wide and alert, lower your eye lids and look at him as if you’re teasing him to come to you. Flirt softly with your eyes. When he enters you for the first time, widen your eyes and look straight into his. Nothing else in the world is going to matter other than that look at that moment.
#8 Wear Flattering Lingerie
Many men love to look at lingerie. A short silk spaghetti strapped nightie is more flattering than a tight leather thing you can’t possibly get out of quickly. Dress for success. Accentuate your assets, lift the parts that sag.
#9 Wear Nothing but a Sheet
While many men love to look at lingerie, there is still plenty of time to pull out all the tricks. Leave the lingerie aside for a while and use the sheet to your advantage. Lie down on the bed naked and cover yourself with the sheet. Flare your hair across the pillow, then cross your arms under your breasts to push them up, leaving just the top of your cleavage exposed. Ben your knees, but leave one leg out showing off your calf and foot. The hint of skin mixed with the knowledge of what happens under the sheets is going to drive him wild!
#10 Feel Sexy
Finally, the most important thing you can do for yourself in order to look sexy in bed is to feel sexy in bed. One very easy trick to feeling sexy is to get yourself aroused before it’s time. If you have to masturbate, or even tease yourself, then do it. When you’re aroused you’re going to want sex, which will make you feel sexy. It also puts off some amazing pheromones. Feeling sexy is the most important part of being sexy. Always remember, though, you really are sexy.